It's here; as of January 13, 2025, we officially have a high schooler. I've feared this day for many reasons, but I'm unsure as to why. Maybe it was realizing she was old enough, or maybe because I couldn’t see beyond teaching that tiny human to read when we began our homeschooling journey. That was my biggest hurdle, and I couldn't see beyond that. I know my Momma's heart isn't ready for her to grow up that it has all gone too fast. But it is here, and I can't stop it; we must embrace it, accept it, grow with it now, and make it the best experience for her possible.
Requirements for Graduation:
I spent last year trying to prepare for this moment. I determined what requirements I wanted for her( also aligning with the state of Wisconsin’s requirements) and considered her tentative plans for the future. Until last year, she wanted to be a veterinarian or vet tech, but she's been leaning towards joining “the family business” of operating heavy equipment. Her great-grandfather, grandfather, DADDY-o, aunt, and uncle have all or are currently involved in something along these lines. So, for her, this means that a 4-year college education is most likely not in her future. This is perfectly acceptable to us as long as she wants it. While her requirements for graduation will still need to be met, it does change the courses she might choose to take over the next 4 years, which may look a little different than I had initially planned.
Moving to Independence:
We worked on that this past year with her science and French courses. This was a learning curve for planning, time management, checking in, and guiding. Based on what we both learned from this, we have decided that I will outline monthly goals for her to meet, but it will be up to her how she accomplishes them. We will take the year's first quarter to assess whether this method works for us. Eventually, I hope I won't have to intervene in setting her goals; she can do that alone. My most significant role will be to evaluate her work for grades and assign credits.
I plan to check in with her weekly for the first quarter, and if that goes well, I will move into bi-weekly checks in the second quarter and then monthly checks in the third and fourth quarters.